Many short texts, one thought each vs One long message, all at once

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Some people press send after every thought and fire off a stream of short texts. Others hold everything back and deliver one tidy message. The first group tends to like how it feels like real-time talking, quick and casual. The second group likes fewer notifications and having the whole point in one place. The split usually comes down to whether someone treats texting like speech or like writing, plus who they are texting and what habits they grew up with.

FAQ

Why do people text so differently from each other?
Some treat a chat like spoken conversation, where thoughts go out as they come. Others treat it like a note, where the message gets shaped first. Age, the apps you started on, and your friends' habits all nudge you one way or the other.
What are the upsides of sending many short texts?
Short bursts feel lively and informal, and the other person can jump in midway instead of waiting for you to finish. They also let you share a thought right away without polishing it first.
What are the upsides of one long message?
A single message means one notification and a clear, complete point that is easy to reread. It can come across as considerate, especially when the other person is busy or has notifications turned on.

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